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How to make a family language plan in 30 minutes

“Where do I start with a language plan for my family?”

By the Kinlingua team · Updated October 19, 2026

Start with four decisions: how many minutes a day your family can really keep, what you most want your child to do in the language, how much of it your child hears now, and who speaks it at home. The plan generator turns those answers into a daily activity mix, a 30-day milestone and a list of tips. Below, each tip is traced to its source and tagged with how strong the source is. Some tips have no source, and this article says which.

What you decide first

The generator needs seven answers: your child's age, the heritage language, the community language, minutes per day, one main goal (everyday conversation, reading and writing, connection with relatives, or support for a school program), current exposure (minimal, some or regular), and who speaks the heritage language at home (one parent, both parents, or a parent and a grandparent). The minutes should be what your family actually has, not what you hope to have. The generator also accepts five optional answers that can change the plan: birth order, learning style, temperament, family profile and extra languages. Two more optional fields, the variety of the heritage language and the script it is read in, are display only and change no minutes.

What you get back

You get an age band, a weekly focus, a list of activities with minutes, one 30-day milestone and tips. ILLUSTRATION from running the plan code, not a recommendation: a child aged 4, Spanish at home, English in the community, one Spanish-speaking parent at home, 30 minutes a day, a goal of everyday conversation, some exposure. The plan was talk 14 minutes, reading 7, songs 5 and a family ritual 4. That adds to 30. It returned four tips.

The activity mix itself, meaning the weights by age band and the adjustments for each goal, has no source in the methodology notes (UNVERIFIED). It is the app's design. Treat it as a starting split that you can change to fit your day.

Where each tip comes from

The generator adds a tip only when its condition is met. With every optional answer filled in, it can add up to 12. The connection tip and the reading-and-writing tip never appear together, because each needs a different main goal. Here is each one, with its source and strength.

  • Minimal exposure (consistency over duration): the notes contain no study for the comparison of five daily minutes against one long weekend session. UNVERIFIED.
  • One parent at home (protect that parent's one-on-one time, which carries much of your child's exposure): this is the app's own wording and has no source. King and Mackey report a father with only 3 to 4 hours a week alone with the child, under 5% of waking hours, which shows why counting matters but does not rank the time.
  • Connection goal (a standing call with a relative): this comes from the app's product notes, not from research. UNVERIFIED.
  • Reading and writing come later (ages 0 to 2 with a reading and writing goal): our suggestion, and the plan keeps the baby mix of talk, songs and picture books. We have found no source that sets an age for starting to read in a heritage language. UNVERIFIED.
  • Below the 20% line: Pearson and others (1997), as King and Mackey report it. REPORTED, and the threshold is CONTESTED.
  • Learning style: the tip says matching activities to a preferred style is disputed. The notes record that as background knowledge, not read in a source. UNVERIFIED. It changes the wording of one activity, not the minutes.
  • Later-born child: Shin, as King and Mackey report it. REPORTED. The book gives the study's year as 2002 in one chapter and 2005 in another, and the notes leave that unresolved.
  • Older sibling in school: King and Mackey, ch. 5, from a parent interview: the sibling brings home more of the community language, and school hours free time for one-on-one. REPORTED.
  • Shy or outgoing child: King and Mackey, ch. 5. REPORTED. Gass and Selinker call the adult research on introversion and extroversion an open question. That is a different population, so the nudge stays modest.
  • Offer a choice or rephrase: Gass and Selinker, ch. 10. VERIFIED that the book says it. It describes conversations between non-native speakers, not parents and children.
  • Reading: Patterson (2002), as King and Mackey report it. REPORTED.
  • Family profile: King and Mackey, ch. 6, their own three profiles. VERIFIED.
  • Three or more languages: King and Mackey, ch. 11, their own position. VERIFIED. The 1994 Basque-Spanish study, as they report it, is REPORTED.

An order of work for 30 minutes

  1. Answer the seven questions with the minutes your family really has.
  2. Choose one main goal. The generator takes one.
  3. Build the plan and read the activity list. Change the split if it does not fit your day.
  4. Read each tip with its strength in mind. A sourced tip and an unsourced one are different kinds of advice.
  5. Decide when the largest activity happens, and write the 30-day milestone where you will see it.

The 30 minutes is a planning budget we chose. It does not come from a source (UNVERIFIED).

What the plan cannot tell you

  • Whether your minutes are enough. For a child aged 4, the generator's 20% line works out to 138 minutes a day. That uses an estimate of 11.5 waking hours a day, which is the app's own working figure with no source (UNVERIFIED). The 30-minute example is below the line, so it returned the tip about it. The 20% figure itself is CONTESTED.
  • What happens in a real week. The plan is aspirational. The audit counts the hours that actually happened. Run the audit after a week and compare.

What this guide rests on

Each claim, how strong its source is, and where it comes from.

  • VERIFIED

    Gass and Selinker describe, from transcripts of conversations between non-native speakers, a repair pattern when a listener does not understand: comprehension checks, confirmation checks, clarification requests, and offering a choice or rephrasing, which works better than repeating the same words louder or slower.

    Gass & Selinker, Second Language Acquisition, ch. 10

  • VERIFIED

    King and Mackey group families into three profiles, majority, mixed and minority language, and give each its own points to remember. The plan generator adds one tip for the profile a family chooses.

    King & Mackey, The Bilingual Edge, ch. 6

  • REPORTED

    In a study King and Mackey describe (Patterson, 2002), how often 64 two-year-olds were read to in each language predicted their vocabulary in that language, even more than total exposure.

    King & Mackey, The Bilingual Edge, ch. 6 (their account, not the original study)

  • REPORTED

    In a survey of Korean-American families that King and Mackey describe (Shin), 79% of first-born, 66% of second-born and 43% of third-born children spoke Korean with their parents. The book dates the study 2002 in one chapter and 2005 in another.

    King & Mackey, The Bilingual Edge, ch. 5 and the myths chapter (their account, not the original study)

  • CONTESTED

    One study (Pearson and others, 1997, as King and Mackey report it) associated about 20% of waking-hour exposure with a child developing spoken vocabulary in a language. The threshold is debated.

    King & Mackey, The Bilingual Edge, as described in this site's methodology notes

  • UNVERIFIED

    The activity weights by age band, the goal adjustments, and the tips for minimal exposure, one parent at home, a connection goal and reading and writing coming later at ages 0 to 2 have no source in the methodology notes.

    No source read for this site

  • UNVERIFIED

    The waking-hours estimates by age band (11.5 hours a day at ages 3 to 5) and the 30-minute planning budget are working figures of this site, not from a cited source.

    No source read for this site

What the marks mean

VERIFIED
: the author's own stated position in a text we read
REPORTED
: a study as the book describes it, not the original paper
CONTESTED
: researchers disagree, and we leave it unresolved
UNVERIFIED
: no source we have read confirms it

One next step

Answer the seven questions and see your plan, with each tip and where it comes from.

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